Get to know Kasia

Struggling to Walk, But Running Free

Within one week, I went from show jumper to bedridden, courtesy of lupus wreaking havoc on my body. But let me tell you, that was just the beginning of an epic journey that would change my life - and hopefully yours too.

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There I was, a horse-crazy girl stuck in bed, unable to even lift my head. But instead of wallowing in self-pity, I decided to fight for what I needed most in my life: to be around horses. And so, armed with nothing but sheer determination and a sprinkle of stubbornness, I set out on a quest to reclaim my passion.

It wasn't easy, let me tell you. From painting horses in bed to struggling to walk to the bathroom, every small victory felt like a triumph. But nothing could prepare me for the moment I finally made it back to the barn, a place that felt like home.

Now, you might be wondering, how does a girl with lupus go from bedridden to horse bridleless rider and horse trainer? Well, let me tell you, it's all about finding a new method, a method based on trust, connection, understanding, and emotion. Lupus may have taken away my physical strength, but it couldn't touch my spirit - or my love for horses.

I operate in a realm beyond labels when it comes to working with horses. It's about attunement, a deep understanding of their emotional state and preferences. My approach is a delicate balance. I incorporate a majority of positive reinforcement and subtle pressure release. I see their behavior as a language, a form of communication that extends far beyond words. And just as they speak to me, I communicate back through my body language and energy, forging a connection that transcends physical proximity.

Intuition guides me, telling me when to shift gears or try a different approach based on my horse's response. But it's not just about them; I factor in my own emotions too. Horses are mirrors to our subconscious, reflecting back our innermost feelings. By acknowledging and processing my own emotions, I am able to be fully present with my horse. And let me tell you, presence is the key to unlocking profound connections with these magnificent creatures.

Each horse is my heart horse and was a mirror for something I was going through.

Through this journey of learning to "train" my horses without pressure, I not only healed their emotional scars but my own as well. You see, each horse became my heart horse, a mirror reflecting back the parts of myself that needed healing. And as I learned to connect with them on an emotional level, something magical happened: I found myself.

Connection Education

When we go at our horse’s pace, the journey is enjoyable. When we use force and punishment, your horse isn’t genuinely participating in being with you.

Now, my mission with the Heart Horse Experience is simple: To help fellow equestrians improve their relationship with their horse and achieve true happiness, safety, and connection. By learning to read horse body language, understand their behavior, and analyze our own actions, we can create a bond that goes beyond words. Any horse has the ability to be your heart horse, if you let them.

Let's be inspired by our horses' willingness and eagerness to be with us, and together, let's create a world where every horse feels loved, understood, and appreciated.